I've always been fascinated by what makes relationships thrive—not just survive. As a child of divorce, I was determined to learn how to have a fantastic, lasting marriage and as a physician, I witnessed firsthand how emotional disconnect and unspoken needs impact every aspect of a person's well-being.
I left clinical medicine to become 'The Intimacy Doctor,' dedicating my life to helping educated, successful couples create relationships that are both deeply nourishing and erotically alive. Through coaching countless couples and the experiences gained in my own 29 year marriage, I firmly believe anyone willing to learn can access the transformative power of honest, authentic communication and ever expanding intimacy.
Through my best-selling book, 'Uncompromising Intimacy,' the Aligned & Hot Marriage program, and the highly-ranked Intimate Marriage Podcast, I've guided thousands of couples to move beyond compromise and discover the joy of being fully themselves with one another.
My work has been featured in The New York Times, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, and many other publications.
My approach is rooted in the belief that passion, fulfillment, and lasting connection come from embracing honesty, curiosity, and growth—not settling for less.
I created Intimate Connection, the Relationship App for Committed Couples, to bring proven tools and insights to you, so you too can experience the kind of relationship that feels vibrant, passionate, and deeply connected. My hope is that this app becomes your trusted, daily companion on your lifelong journey of love and intimacy.
