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Polyamory and non-monogamy relationship guidance for more intentional connection

PolyCoach by Decolonizing Love offers personalized support for exploring or practicing polyamory and non-monogamy.
PolyCoach by Decolonizing Love offers personalized support for exploring or practicing polyamory and non-monogamy.
  • Work through fear, jealousy, and uncertainty with care
  • Question inherited scripts about love and relationship norms 
  • Build agreements that honor connection, autonomy, and trust
Nick Piperno
Created byNick Piperno
Relationship Coach and the co-founder of one of the world's largest polyamory education platforms with over 600K followers across social media.
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You've started honest conversations, but tend to avoid discussing jealousy directly. Try the guided jealousy reflection exercise to surface and share your feelings safely.

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8 min • Jealousy Reflection

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Polyamory support for real life

Build more clarity, care, and confidence in your relationships

Whether you are questioning monogamy, newly exploring polyamory, solo polyamorous, deeply experienced, or building a relationship-anarchist practice, PolyCoach helps you make intentional choices rooted in consent, autonomy, and care. Work with what is true for your relationships, not a one-size-fits-all script.

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A meaningful step forward

You completed 4 relationship-care practices this month: reflection, communication, and agreements on your own terms.

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Meet difficult emotions with care

Use practical tools to understand fear, jealousy, uncertainty, and nervous-system responses without shame or pressure to feel differently.

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Communicate with more clarity

Practice honest conversations, reflection, listening, repair, and consent-based communication with partners, dates, friends, and chosen family.

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Shape relationships that fit you

Explore frameworks and build agreements, boundaries, and support systems that honor your values, autonomy, and connections.

Meet PolyCoach

Your polyamory relationship coach, in your pocket

PolyCoach meets you where you are: questioning, opening an existing relationship, solo polyamorous, practicing relationship anarchy, or navigating an established constellation of connections. Build skills, reflect deeply, and make choices that fit your values rather than someone else’s relationship script.

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Polyamory and non-monogamy relationship guidance for more intentional connection

PolyCoach by Decolonizing Love offers personalized support for exploring or practicing polyamory and non-monogamy.
PolyCoach by Decolonizing Love offers personalized support for exploring or practicing polyamory and non-monogamy.
  • Work through fear, jealousy, and uncertainty with care
  • Question inherited scripts about love and relationship norms 
  • Build agreements that honor connection, autonomy, and trust
Nick Piperno
Created byNick Piperno
Relationship Coach and the co-founder of one of the world's largest polyamory education platforms with over 600K followers across social media.
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Your coach

You've started honest conversations, but tend to avoid discussing jealousy directly. Try the guided jealousy reflection exercise to surface and share your feelings safely.

Today's Session

8 min • Jealousy Reflection

Continue session
Take the quiz to get your personalized plan
Polyamory support for real life

Build more clarity, care, and confidence in your relationships

Whether you are questioning monogamy, newly exploring polyamory, solo polyamorous, deeply experienced, or building a relationship-anarchist practice, PolyCoach helps you make intentional choices rooted in consent, autonomy, and care. Work with what is true for your relationships, not a one-size-fits-all script.

Feature image

A meaningful step forward

You completed 4 relationship-care practices this month: reflection, communication, and agreements on your own terms.

favorite

Meet difficult emotions with care

Use practical tools to understand fear, jealousy, uncertainty, and nervous-system responses without shame or pressure to feel differently.

forum

Communicate with more clarity

Practice honest conversations, reflection, listening, repair, and consent-based communication with partners, dates, friends, and chosen family.

handshake

Shape relationships that fit you

Explore frameworks and build agreements, boundaries, and support systems that honor your values, autonomy, and connections.

Meet PolyCoach

Your polyamory relationship coach, in your pocket

PolyCoach meets you where you are: questioning, opening an existing relationship, solo polyamorous, practicing relationship anarchy, or navigating an established constellation of connections. Build skills, reflect deeply, and make choices that fit your values rather than someone else’s relationship script.

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Daily Intention Setting

Values Exploration

Today's Session

8 min • Jealousy Reflection

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Communication Journal

Including everything you need to succeed:

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Personalized relationship guidance for your real life

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Receive guidance shaped by your relationship approach, values, current connections, goals, and readiness, not assumptions about couplehood or hierarchy.

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Guided self-reflection exercises to clarify your desires

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Unpack your motivations, fears, and hopes with structured prompts and expert guidance at every stage.

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Communication tools for the relationships that matter

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Practice clear requests, listening, repair, consent, and difficult conversations with partners, dates, friends, family, or chosen family.

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Agreements and boundaries that support autonomy

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Explore boundaries, agreements, and care practices that are specific, revisable, and rooted in consent rather than control.

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Progress tracking to celebrate growth and milestones

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Track lessons, reflections, and intentions as you build self-awareness and relationship skills at a pace that works for you.

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Decolonial polyamory lessons that challenge assumptions

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Question couple-centric and colonial relationship norms while discovering possibilities that align with your values and community.

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Interactive quizzes to deepen understanding

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Test your knowledge and reflect on key concepts after each lesson to reinforce learning and growth.

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Real-world challenges for practical skill-building

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Apply what you learn with actionable exercises designed to spark meaningful conversations and decisions.

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On-demand coaching tips for every step

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Get expert advice and encouragement whenever you need support, clarity, or a confidence boost.

Created by Decolonizing Love

“I built this app for people who want relationships rooted in autonomy, consent, and care, not a prescribed script.”

Nick Piperno

Nick Piperno

Relationship Coach and the co-founder of one of the world's largest polyamory education platforms with over 600K followers across social media.

Hi! I'm Nick, co-founder of Decolonizing Love, a relationship-education platform that teaches polyamory from a social justice and decolonial perspective.

I'm also a relationship coach. I've coached over 650 people who were opening up their relationships or moving into non-monogamy, and I've seen it go well and go badly. Many come to me once they realize they're in over their heads, even after reading all the books.

Most relationship advice treats couplehood, hierarchy, cohabitation, and the relationship escalator as the default. That leads to hurt feelings, anxiety, betrayal, and sometimes breakups.

That's why I created PolyCoach. It starts from a different place: your relationships should reflect your values, autonomy, consent, and community. It's for people questioning monogamy, opening an existing relationship, practicing solo polyamory, exploring relationship anarchy, swinging, or building another consensual structure. It doesn't prescribe one "right" way to relate. Each unit gives you tools for reflection, communication, repair, and intentional choice.

Build a relationship practice that fits your values and real life

Identify your true relationship desires
Understand the roots of jealousy and fear
Communicate boundaries with clarity and care
Navigate difficult conversations with compassion
Challenge inherited beliefs about monogamy
Create agreements that honor consent and autonomy
Build trust through transparency and honesty
Repair and move through setbacks with care
Develop emotional resilience for polyamory
Choose relationship structures that fit your life
POLYCOACH GUIDANCE

Polyamory guidance that adapts to your relationships

PolyCoach adapts lessons, reflections, and coaching to your relationship approach, values, goals, and current challenges. Get practical support without being pushed toward couplehood, hierarchy, or any single definition of success.

book

Navigating Jealousy: A Decolonial Approach

Personalized Lesson • 14 min
Unpack the roots of jealousy and learn practical, culturally-aware tools to navigate it as you open your relationship. This lesson adapts to your unique fears, values, and communication style for real progress.
What to do
psychology
Reflect: Where Does Jealousy Come From?
4 min
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search
Identify Your Triggers
3 min
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chat
Practice: Communicating Vulnerably
4 min
chevron_right
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Reframe: Decolonizing Relationship Norms
3 min
chevron_right
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Action Step: Setting Agreements
2 min
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How PolyCoach works

Build your polyamory practice in 4 simple steps

Start with a few questions, then explore personalized relationship guidance at your own pace

Onboarding Quiz

What brings you to explore non-monogamy?

I want to deepen trust and communication
I'm curious about polyamory but feel nervous
We want to explore together, safely
I'm questioning if monogamy fits me
1

Complete the onboarding quiz

Share your relationship approach, values, goals, and current concerns so your guidance reflects your actual context.

Your Plan

Week 1

Foundations & Self-Discovery

Unpacking Relationship Myths
Identifying Core Values
Naming Fears & Hopes
Daily Reflection Practice
Week 2Upcoming

Communication & Agreements

2

Get your personalized PolyCoach plan

Receive a flexible roadmap built around your needs, without assuming a primary partner, cohabitation, hierarchy, or a single relationship goal.

Today, October 5

6
V

Daily Intention Setting

Activity • 3 min

Values Exploration

Lesson • 5 min

Jealousy Reflection Exercise

Session • 8 min

Communication Journal

Journal • 4 min

3

Practice skills that support your real life

Use guided reflections, conversations, and exercises to build clarity, communication, emotional resilience, and consent-based care at your pace.

Your Progress

Curriculum Units Completed

3 units

as of Jul 27

JulyOctober

Lessons Completed

14 lessons

as of Aug 2

JulyOctober
4

Notice growth and revisit what matters

Track insights and milestones, then return to your values as your relationships, needs, and agreements evolve.

It only takes 2 minutes to get started

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Join over 1,000,000 people achieving their goals on Studio

Whatever your goal, find a life-changing app on Studio

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The app is beyond compare!

The app is beyond compare! Best ever! I mean, this is like a Ferrari engine when I'm used to driving a tractor.
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Daphne A.
Verified Studio customer
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It's blown my mind

I love the app - it's blown my mind actually. I don't know how you've managed to make it so personalised but congratulations - it's just superb. I love how simple and uncomplicated it is (and very effective).
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Martine L.
Verified Studio customer
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The coaching is phenomenal

I use AI every day in my work and I absolutely love the app. The coaching is phenomenal. I've done multiple programs, but this is by far the best experience.
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Monica R.
Verified Studio customer
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I'm blown away by the personalization

As I use this app, I'm blown away by the personalization - it feels like it truly understands what I need. I can't say enough positive things about this app; it's been a game changer.
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William T.
Verified Studio customer
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Brilliant app! Five stars are not enough!

Brilliant app! Five stars are not enough! I cannot recommend this app more highly!
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Jane M.
Verified Studio customer
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This app is everything that I have been looking for

This app is everything that I have been looking for because it feels so personalized. I'm trying to accomplish extraordinary change in my life and that is exactly what I needed. Nothing but positive feedback from me, thank you again!
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Amy C.
Verified Studio customer
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Worth every penny

I have been using the app for over a month and it is proving to be worth every penny by providing personalized support, strategies and education in a structured environment that has really helped me to stay focused. It's a phenomenal tool!
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Tim P.
Verified Studio customer
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Your questions, answered

Who is this app for?
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What will I learn in this app?
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How much time do I need to dedicate to this app?
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Is this app suitable for beginners?
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How personalized is the experience?
expand_more
Will this tell me what relationship structure to choose?
expand_more
Start with PolyCoach

Build more intentional polyamorous relationships

Take the quiz to receive personalized guidance for your values, relationship approach, and current questions. Explore polyamory and non-monogamy on your own terms with PolyCoach by Decolonizing Love.

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I'm feeling overwhelmed and only have a few minutes today. Can you give me a shorter activity?
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Including everything you need to succeed:

favorite

Personalized relationship guidance for your real life

keyboard_arrow_down

Receive guidance shaped by your relationship approach, values, current connections, goals, and readiness, not assumptions about couplehood or hierarchy.

psychology

Guided self-reflection exercises to clarify your desires

keyboard_arrow_down

Unpack your motivations, fears, and hopes with structured prompts and expert guidance at every stage.

forum

Communication tools for the relationships that matter

keyboard_arrow_down

Practice clear requests, listening, repair, consent, and difficult conversations with partners, dates, friends, family, or chosen family.

security

Agreements and boundaries that support autonomy

keyboard_arrow_down

Explore boundaries, agreements, and care practices that are specific, revisable, and rooted in consent rather than control.

insights

Progress tracking to celebrate growth and milestones

keyboard_arrow_down

Track lessons, reflections, and intentions as you build self-awareness and relationship skills at a pace that works for you.

lightbulb

Decolonial polyamory lessons that challenge assumptions

keyboard_arrow_down

Question couple-centric and colonial relationship norms while discovering possibilities that align with your values and community.

quiz

Interactive quizzes to deepen understanding

keyboard_arrow_down

Test your knowledge and reflect on key concepts after each lesson to reinforce learning and growth.

check_circle

Real-world challenges for practical skill-building

keyboard_arrow_down

Apply what you learn with actionable exercises designed to spark meaningful conversations and decisions.

support_agent

On-demand coaching tips for every step

keyboard_arrow_down

Get expert advice and encouragement whenever you need support, clarity, or a confidence boost.

Created by Decolonizing Love

“I built this app for people who want relationships rooted in autonomy, consent, and care, not a prescribed script.”

Nick Piperno

Nick Piperno

Relationship Coach and the co-founder of one of the world's largest polyamory education platforms with over 600K followers across social media.

Hi! I'm Nick, co-founder of Decolonizing Love, a relationship-education platform that teaches polyamory from a social justice and decolonial perspective.

I'm also a relationship coach. I've coached over 650 people who were opening up their relationships or moving into non-monogamy, and I've seen it go well and go badly. Many come to me once they realize they're in over their heads, even after reading all the books.

Most relationship advice treats couplehood, hierarchy, cohabitation, and the relationship escalator as the default. That leads to hurt feelings, anxiety, betrayal, and sometimes breakups.

That's why I created PolyCoach. It starts from a different place: your relationships should reflect your values, autonomy, consent, and community. It's for people questioning monogamy, opening an existing relationship, practicing solo polyamory, exploring relationship anarchy, swinging, or building another consensual structure. It doesn't prescribe one "right" way to relate. Each unit gives you tools for reflection, communication, repair, and intentional choice.

Build a relationship practice that fits your values and real life

Identify your true relationship desires
Understand the roots of jealousy and fear
Communicate boundaries with clarity and care
Navigate difficult conversations with compassion
Challenge inherited beliefs about monogamy
Create agreements that honor consent and autonomy
Build trust through transparency and honesty
Repair and move through setbacks with care
Develop emotional resilience for polyamory
Choose relationship structures that fit your life
POLYCOACH GUIDANCE

Polyamory guidance that adapts to your relationships

PolyCoach adapts lessons, reflections, and coaching to your relationship approach, values, goals, and current challenges. Get practical support without being pushed toward couplehood, hierarchy, or any single definition of success.

book

Navigating Jealousy: A Decolonial Approach

Personalized Lesson • 14 min
Unpack the roots of jealousy and learn practical, culturally-aware tools to navigate it as you open your relationship. This lesson adapts to your unique fears, values, and communication style for real progress.
What to do
psychology
Reflect: Where Does Jealousy Come From?
4 min
chevron_right
search
Identify Your Triggers
3 min
chevron_right
chat
Practice: Communicating Vulnerably
4 min
chevron_right
lightbulb
Reframe: Decolonizing Relationship Norms
3 min
chevron_right
assignment
Action Step: Setting Agreements
2 min
chevron_right
How PolyCoach works

Build your polyamory practice in 4 simple steps

Start with a few questions, then explore personalized relationship guidance at your own pace

Onboarding Quiz

What brings you to explore non-monogamy?

I want to deepen trust and communication
I'm curious about polyamory but feel nervous
We want to explore together, safely
I'm questioning if monogamy fits me
1

Complete the onboarding quiz

Share your relationship approach, values, goals, and current concerns so your guidance reflects your actual context.

Your Plan

Week 1

Foundations & Self-Discovery

Unpacking Relationship Myths
Identifying Core Values
Naming Fears & Hopes
Daily Reflection Practice
Week 2Upcoming

Communication & Agreements

2

Get your personalized PolyCoach plan

Receive a flexible roadmap built around your needs, without assuming a primary partner, cohabitation, hierarchy, or a single relationship goal.

Today, October 5

6
V

Daily Intention Setting

Activity • 3 min

Values Exploration

Lesson • 5 min

Jealousy Reflection Exercise

Session • 8 min

Communication Journal

Journal • 4 min

3

Practice skills that support your real life

Use guided reflections, conversations, and exercises to build clarity, communication, emotional resilience, and consent-based care at your pace.

Your Progress

Curriculum Units Completed

3 units

as of Jul 27

JulyOctober

Lessons Completed

14 lessons

as of Aug 2

JulyOctober
4

Notice growth and revisit what matters

Track insights and milestones, then return to your values as your relationships, needs, and agreements evolve.

It only takes 2 minutes to get started

starstarstarstarstar

Join over 1,000,000 people achieving their goals on Studio

Whatever your goal, find a life-changing app on Studio

Quote

The app is beyond compare!

The app is beyond compare! Best ever! I mean, this is like a Ferrari engine when I'm used to driving a tractor.
D
starstarstarstarstar
Daphne A.
Verified Studio customer
Quote

It's blown my mind

I love the app - it's blown my mind actually. I don't know how you've managed to make it so personalised but congratulations - it's just superb. I love how simple and uncomplicated it is (and very effective).
M
starstarstarstarstar
Martine L.
Verified Studio customer
Quote

The coaching is phenomenal

I use AI every day in my work and I absolutely love the app. The coaching is phenomenal. I've done multiple programs, but this is by far the best experience.
M
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Monica R.
Verified Studio customer
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I'm blown away by the personalization

As I use this app, I'm blown away by the personalization - it feels like it truly understands what I need. I can't say enough positive things about this app; it's been a game changer.
W
starstarstarstarstar
William T.
Verified Studio customer
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Brilliant app! Five stars are not enough!

Brilliant app! Five stars are not enough! I cannot recommend this app more highly!
J
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Jane M.
Verified Studio customer
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This app is everything that I have been looking for

This app is everything that I have been looking for because it feels so personalized. I'm trying to accomplish extraordinary change in my life and that is exactly what I needed. Nothing but positive feedback from me, thank you again!
A
starstarstarstarstar
Amy C.
Verified Studio customer
Quote

Worth every penny

I have been using the app for over a month and it is proving to be worth every penny by providing personalized support, strategies and education in a structured environment that has really helped me to stay focused. It's a phenomenal tool!
T
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Tim P.
Verified Studio customer
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It's making a huge difference for me

I want to sincerely thank you for creating this product. I have not been a huge fan of AI in general, but this use case is exceptional. It's making a huge difference for me.
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Alana G.
Verified Studio customer
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Thank you for creating this app!

I'm only on day 4, but I already feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off my shoulders. Thank you for creating this app! It's already making such a difference <3
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A. U.
Verified Studio customer
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I am blown away

I went in with no expectations really. I've been in online coaching for 15 years professionally, and I know how hard it is to deliver something that is accessible and progressive. I am blown away.
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Brahim
Verified Studio customer
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One of the best discoveries ever

Studio has been one of the best discoveries ever. This app is amazing; fun, enjoyable, and so incredibly useful. I've never been one to use apps like these too much, but yours just blew my mind.
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Maria
Verified Studio customer
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I accomplished more in 4 weeks than 10 years

I feel like I accomplished more in the past 4 weeks than I did the past 10 years. I'm amazed by what you were able to pull off with Studio and I hope more people benefit from it.
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Marty
Verified Studio customer
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FAQ

Your questions, answered

Who is this app for?
expand_more
What will I learn in this app?
expand_more
How much time do I need to dedicate to this app?
expand_more
Is this app suitable for beginners?
expand_more
How personalized is the experience?
expand_more
Will this tell me what relationship structure to choose?
expand_more
Start with PolyCoach

Build more intentional polyamorous relationships

Take the quiz to receive personalized guidance for your values, relationship approach, and current questions. Explore polyamory and non-monogamy on your own terms with PolyCoach by Decolonizing Love.