My journey has been anything but linear, or neat. I’ve been a mother to five, an award-winning author, an exotic dancer, a devoted wife, a retail store owner, a circus acrobat, a farmer, a fashion publicist, a celebrated beauty entrepreneur, a book editor, a lecturer, a social media influencer, a global activist, and the board chairman of our country’s largest human rights organization. Each chapter of my life has demanded a new version of me. Reinvention became my superpower.
For years, I felt the weight of endless giving—serving family, community, and society until I was worn thin. Like so many women, I reached a point where my body was breaking, and I had to ask, “Is this it?” That question, became the beginning of my regeneration. I learned to break rules, take left turns and carve my own path.
I created this The Starfish Method because I know firsthand how frustrating it is to have outgrown a life that once fit. My hope is that this app helps you see that nothing is wasted and every experience can become fuel for what's next. Together, we'll build a life that is a little wild, deeply meaningful, and reflective of what you want today. You deserve more than survival. You deserve to get free.