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Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support in Your Pocket, 24/7

What if their chaos didn’t control your whole day anymore? Daily support to help you stop second-guessing yourself, spiralling over their texts, feeling guilty for saying no, and letting their chaos control how you feel.
What if their chaos didn’t control your whole day anymore? Daily support to help you stop second-guessing yourself, spiralling over their texts, feeling guilty for saying no, and letting their chaos control how you feel.
  • See their name on your phone without your stomach dropping
  • Say “no” without spending the next three hours, or days, or weeks, feeling guilty
  • Trust your own decisions without needing everyone else to validate them
Adriana Bucci
Created byAdriana Bucci
Trauma-informed life coach supporting survivors of narcissistic abuse to reclaim self-trust, emotional safety, and live life on their own terms
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Interrupting Self-Gaslighting: Guided Reflection

Personalized Lesson • 12 min
Learn to recognize and interrupt self-gaslighting patterns with a step-by-step reflection tailored to your recent experiences. This activity helps you rebuild self-trust and gently challenge internalized self-doubt, using your own real-life situations.
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Grounding Breath
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Spot the Self-Gaslighting Thought
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Challenge the Narrative
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Affirm Your Reality
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Gentle Closure
2 min
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Today's Healing Activity

6 min • Nervous System Reset

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Built for survivors

Heal the part of you that had to survive the narcissist in your life

You already know they're a narcissist. Now let's deal with what their BS did to YOU.
Stop spending hours questioning whether you remembered something wrong. Stop panicking when someone's upset with you. Stop explaining every boundary like you're presenting evidence in court.
This app helps you practice a different response, one small step at a time.

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Nice job!

7-day healing streak - you showed up for yourself every single day this week!

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Their name pops up on your phone. And... you're ok!

Calm your nervous system with grounding, emotional check-ins, body awareness, and nervous system tools to move out of fight, flight, freeze, fawn, and shutdown, without judging yourself for being triggered.

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Something triggers you without stealing the rest of your day.

Are you ready to release what your body has been carrying? When anger, grief, panic, guilt, or numbness hits, the app guides you to name the emotion, locate it in your body, rate the intensity, breathe, and release it safely.

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You say no. And don't write a six-paragraph explanation afterward.

Rebuild safety, boundaries, and self-trust. As your body starts to feel safer, you’ll learn to trust what you’re seeing, stop over-explaining, use no-response or grey rock when needed, and set boundaries with your actions.

The only app you need

Healing that actually changes your everyday life

You don't need another app teaching you what a narcissist is. You need help with the shit that happens after you know.

Like when their text sends you spiralling. When you feel guilty for saying no. When someone's bad mood has you wondering what you did wrong. Or when you know they're manipulating you but somehow still end up six messages deep defending yourself.

The app gives you something small to work on every day, based on your healing journey, so these moments stop having so much power over you.

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Morning Check-In

Low Contact Basics

Today's Healing Activity

6 min • Nervous System Reset

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Evening Journal Prompt

Here's what healing starts to look like:

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You start your day focused on YOU instead of their bullshit with a Daily Healing Briefing to steady your system

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Each day, you get a short personalized message that reminds you what you're working on, grounds you in your healing, and helps you start the day from your reality instead of slipping back into old survival patterns.

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Actually know what you're feeling instead of knowing you just feel like shit with Emotional Check-Ins to track your body cues

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Check in with your emotions, triggers, and body cues so you can understand what’s happening inside you, recognize patterns over time, and figure out what you actually need.

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Know what to do when you're triggered instead of just waiting to feel better with Nervous System Practices for one safe next step

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Get one focused daily nervous system exercise based on where you are in your recovery, whether you need to regulate after a trigger, process an emotion, release guilt or shame, feel safer in your body, or rebuild self-trust.

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You get that weird text and get the manipulation decoded with AI Chat Text Message Support when your body spirals

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Bring your screenshots and confusing messages into the app and get help identifying possible guilt-tripping, baiting, DARVO, gaslighting, blame-shifting, or boundary violations so you can recognize the manipulation before getting sucked into it.

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Stop getting your energy siphoned by the narcissist with No Contact, Grey Rock, and Low-Supply support

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Get help choosing silence, short neutral replies, or low-supply responses when contact is unavoidable so you can stop over-explaining, defending yourself, and handing over your emotional energy.

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Somewhere to put all the shit you've been holding in and somatic release

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Use tools like uncensored journaling, breathing, and body-based exercises to safely process anger, grief, guilt, and other emotions instead of stuffing them down or letting them consume you.

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Make the relationship decision that's right for YOU with No Contact Guidance for difficult relationship decisions

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Get step-by-step guidance and support for navigating difficult relationship decisions, including low contact and no contact, based on your actual situation.

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Spot the red flags before you waste another year explaining them away with Relationship Red Flag Education to protect your future

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Learn to recognize unhealthy relationship dynamics earlier, understand what you're seeing, and stop normalizing patterns that shouldn't be normal.

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One day you realize, "OMG! That *doesn't* bother me anymore!" With Healing Milestones & Progress Tracking to celebrate your growth

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Track your healing journey, goals, patterns, and milestones so you can actually see how differently you're handling situations that once sent you spiraling.

Created by Adriana bucci - founder of Let's Get Your Shift Together

"After years of healing from narcissistic abuse, I built the app I wish I’d had"

Adriana Bucci

Adriana Bucci

Trauma-informed life coach supporting survivors of narcissistic abuse to reclaim self-trust, emotional safety, and live life on their own terms

My journey began in the aftermath of years spent navigating the confusion, self-doubt, and emotional chaos that comes from growing up with narcissistic caregivers and enduring toxic relationships. For a long time, I didn’t even realize how deeply these experiences had shaped my nervous system, my boundaries, and my sense of self-worth. Like so many survivors, I internalized the gaslighting and criticism, believing I was the problem and struggling to trust my own reality.

I know what it feels like to live in survival mode after narcissistic abuse. Second-guessing yourself, over-explaining, scanning for danger, and feeling guilty for having boundaries.

For me, survival mode didn't stay emotional. Years of repressed trauma eventually manifested as debilitating physical chronic pain; migraines, nerve pain, TMJ dysfunction, carpal tunnel syndrome, just to name a few. It wasn't until I did the actual nervous system work that the pain finally resolved. That's when I understood: narcissistic abuse doesn't just live in your head. It lives in your body. And that's exactly where healing has to happen, because the Mind-Body connection is REAL.

The support I found often felt too generic, too clinical, or too disconnected from what narcissistic abuse actually does to your body and mind. I didn’t need more “just let it go” advice. I needed practical tools for the moments when I was triggered, spiralling, frozen, angry, or doubting my own reality.

My own healing journey inspired me to become a life coach so I could help other people. My certifications include:
* Certified Professional Life Coach
* Certified Mind Body Fitness Coach
* Certified Stress Management Coach
* Certified SafeSpace Trauma Informed Facilitator

And that's why I created Let’s Get Your Shift Together. This is daily nervous system healing support for survivors who are ready to feel safe in their bodies again, trust themselves again, and build a life that is no longer organized around someone else’s dysfunction.

My hope is that this app becomes a steady place to come back to when you feel confused, dysregulated, guilty, angry, or alone. Healing from narcissistic abuse is not about becoming someone new. It’s about coming back to yourself: your voice, your body, your reality, your peace.

Follow Coach Adriana’s proven process and start living like their bullshit isn’t in charge anymore

Trust what you remember without questioning yourself for three hours
Get triggered without losing the rest of your day or week
Say “no” without guilt, panic, or a six-paragraph explanation
Recognize when an old trauma response is running the show
Stop letting the inner critic they programmed in your head run your life
Spot red flags before you explain them away
Make low-contact or no-contact decisions without drowning in guilt
Notice yourself handling situations that used to bamboozle you
Stop living in survival mode and start building a life you actually want
Feel safe being yourself without constantly scanning for someone else's reaction
AI-POWERED COACHING

Real support in real time 24/7!

Get 24/7 support trained in my narcissistic abuse recovery frameworks and coaching approach, whether you’re triggered, questioning your reality, dealing with a confusing text, struggling with a boundary, or just need help figuring out what to do next.

assignment

Interrupting Self-Gaslighting: Guided Reflection

Personalized Lesson • 12 min
Learn to recognize and interrupt self-gaslighting patterns with a step-by-step reflection tailored to your recent experiences. This activity helps you rebuild self-trust and gently challenge internalized self-doubt, using your own real-life situations.
What to do
spa
Grounding Breath
2 min
chevron_right
psychology
Spot the Self-Gaslighting Thought
3 min
chevron_right
edit
Challenge the Narrative
4 min
chevron_right
check_circle
Affirm Your Reality
2 min
chevron_right
wb_sunny
Gentle Closure
2 min
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How it works

Your personalized healing plan, without figuring it all out yourself

Take a 2-minute assessment and the app figures out where to start, what to focus on, and what your next step should be.

Onboarding Quiz

What’s your top healing priority?

Stop doubting and gaslighting myself
Learn to set boundaries without guilt
Regulate my emotions and nervous system
Rebuild self-trust and confidence
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Share what you’re actually struggling with

Answer a few questions about what’s happening in your life right now, what keeps triggering you, where you feel stuck, your boundaries, relationships, and nervous system patterns.

Your Plan

Week 1

Foundations of Healing

Recognizing Self-Gaslighting
Daily Nervous System Tools
Grey Rock & Low/No Contact Support
Emotional Check-In Practice
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Deepening Recovery

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Get a healing plan built around YOU

No cookie cutter one-size-fits-all healing checklist. Your answers determine where you start and what you work on, from self-gaslighting and nervous system regulation to boundaries, identity, relationships, and rebuilding self-trust.

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Morning Check-In

Reflection • 2 min

Low Contact Basics

Exercise • 4 min

Nervous System Reset

Activity • 6 min

Evening Journal Prompt

Journal • 5 min

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Do ONE small healing assignment for yourself every day

No three-hour healing routine required. Open the app, check in with yourself, and complete one focused exercise designed to move your healing forward without making healing itself another full time job.

Your Progress

Self-Trust Score

82%

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When life inevitably gets messy, you don’t have to figure it out alone

Bring the spiral, weird text, boundary you’re terrified to set, confusing interaction, or emotion you don’t know what to do with to your AI Coach and get support figuring out your next step.

It only takes 2 minutes to get started

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They stopped surviving them and started getting their lives back.

Real words from survivors Coach Adriana has helped through narcissistic abuse recovery.

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Adriana helped me unpack my life one layer at a time. I am now over 60. After many therapists left me feeling stupid, I was introduced to Adriana’s work and listened over and over until I was ready to start healing.
Adriana asks all the hard questions, and as each layer fell away, I was able to see the truth: the emotional abuse was real. I learned to recognize and squash that inner critic and replace it with my kind, gentle voice. I now have the right tools for my mind and soul.
Don't let the decades of abuse consume you.
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Nadir
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Highly Recommend Saved my life! Completely alone, with my family/friends siding with my abuser, Adriana gave me the support I desperately needed.
I learned about the Narcissist Toxic Abuse Cycle, manipulation tactics, and how abuse impacts our emotional and physical health. It’s real folks, it is not in your head, you are not crazy.
I had seen other counsellors; however, they lacked the knowledge and tools to help me
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Samantha R
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Adriana’s raw and genuine style is what made me trust her. Being a child victim of narcissistic abuse, growing up into adulthood with it, and eventually seeing the abuse affect my wife and kids, I decided to step away from my abusers and dive into help.
There is no bullshit in Adriana's coaching. It’s filled with real personal accounts from her life, real stories of what worked and didn’t work, real progress shared from her and previous clients who sought her help.
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Steve W
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You saved my life, Adriana. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for teaching me how to release the pent up emotions so that I’m at peace and free from the chains of my childhood trauma. Thank you for giving me the tools to break the trauma bond with my ex boyfriend.
Before working with you, I was an empty shell of who I am now. I’m a fierce warrior, unafraid of all of the possibilities ahead of me. My anxiety has dissipated, I have healthier relationships with family, friends and my fiance.
I will always hear your calming and supportive voice over my inner critic’s voice. This was no accident.
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Alise
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Dealing with a narcissist is a minefield that you can get into trouble with despite best intentions if you don’t know how to navigate what is happening to you.
Adriana wants to understand who you are. She wants to hear what you’re going through and identify the problem spots. She shows you where you’re doing well, where you need some guidance, and where you’re risking stepping wrong, but with the compassion to know how you need to hear it.
She’ll guide you so that you can do the heavy lifting yourself and gain the confidence to take your life back. You will not regret for a second letting Adriana show you how to brush the clouds away and walk freely and confidently
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Phil and Ana
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Adriana’s coaching program is the best and the most comprehensive method I've gone through to escape from the web of lies that Narcissists bring into our lives.
It isn't easy and requires lots of courage. But her consistent encouragement and the truth she brings out will give you all the tools you need to overcome hurtful words and actions coming out of toxic people.
All you need to do is take a little action every day!
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Uibin
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Adriana’s coaching has transformed my life. Before I started working with her, my people-reading skills were very poor. I would always doubt my intuition, and I found myself entangled in one narcissistic friendship/situationship after another. I had very low self-esteem, low self-confidence, poor boundaries, and I was a people-pleaser.
Adriana thoroughly educated me on how to detect narcissists, and trained me on how to be in touch with my intuition and emotions.
I finally feel that I am healing and that I am in control of my life. There is always light at the end of the dark tunnel.
Your life will change from being a survivor to a thriver.
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Angelica
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Adriana is literally a lifesaver. I found Adriana soon after becoming estranged from my toxic family. I was struggling with toxic shame and difficulty navigating narcissistic family dynamics.
She gently but honestly helped me understand the intricacies of toxic families, trauma bonding, and building a life rooted in self-love and honoring my truth.
I am not sure I would have been able to maintain no-contact and build this incredible life free from abuse if I didn’t have her support and guidance, especially in the early stages of my healing journey.
Adriana’s honesty is a refreshing change to anyone who’s lived a life in the confusion of narcissistic abuse.
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Cheryl
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Let’s Get Your Shift Together has literally changed my life. I was hesitant to admit to myself I needed coaching, but it’s been one of the most beneficial things I’ve ever done for myself.
Adriana helped me understand the complexity of what I had been dealing with my whole life and made me feel validated. Talking to someone who’s been through it themselves was extremely validating.
Since completing this program, communication between my wife and I has never been better, and for the first time in my life I feel in touch with myself.
I have also tried therapy, and I find coaching has a less formal, peer-to-peer feel far more beneficial than the clinical feel I had with traditional therapy.
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Jason
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Knowledge is freaking power. I’ve been seeking guidance to cope with my mother’s narcissistic abuse. Therapy made it worse. No one around me understood. Culture told me I’m the problem and my mother should be worshipped.
After a prayer, I came across Adriana’s page and my entire life changed. I decided to reach out to Adriana for coaching and I had massive breakthroughs.
I followed her protocol precisely. I am actually fully free from my mother’s narcissistic abuse - physically and mentally. No guilt, shame, or doubt attached. You can be independent, set boundaries, and be free. I’d like to thank Adriana for literally changing my life for the better. It’s so, so, so worth it.
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Dalia
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I was really nervous but excited about doing this work. Initially, I had a very difficult time being able to call the harmful person in my life a narcissist, and I was afraid of mislabeling them.
Adriana was very understanding and receptive to my concerns. Through her breakdowns of narcissist behaviors and tactics, I am able to see the patterns in my own relationships that I missed previously.
I feel confident in knowing how to set and keep my boundaries, and this has helped me take my life into my own hands and take the power away from the narcissistic people in my life
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Natasha
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I didn’t even trust myself to know if I was lying about the abuse or not. When I started working with Adriana, I was struggling so much with self-worth and trusting myself.
I felt broken, confused, and lost, and was in a really dark place. Adriana reminded me that I wasn’t broken, that my experience absolutely was as bad as I perceived it, and sometimes worse.
She helped me validate my experience, find the confidence to trust myself, and start to move forward after feeling stuck for so long. I surprised myself with unconscious insights I didn’t know I had. I feel so much lighter and have a much better sense of direction after our sessions.
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Jess
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This changed my life. I was in a very unhealthy situationship with a narcissist. I started weekly therapy sessions that included EMDR to assist in getting myself out of the cycle of abuse, but the protocol was not effective. I started feeling so hopeless, stuck, and trapped.
I truly felt like I was never going to be able to escape the immense psychological torture that I endured. When Adriana explained her work to me, I had a glimpse of hope. I was extremely nervous and skeptical, but I was desperate, yet hopeful, and decided to join.
Fast forward to now: I have two months of no contact with the abuser, am re-establishing myself, my identity, and my values, and I am filled with immense peace.
Adriana gave me the confidence and tools I needed to officially break things off with my ex and remain free from contact with him. I no longer feel trapped in a cycle of abuse, but free, empowered, and stronger than I ever was.
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Angela
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I only wish I’d done it sooner. If you’re following Adriana, that means you can benefit so much more from her work. Take it from me: I followed her Instagram for years, and in that time tried counseling more than once. Now that I’ve done her program, I only wish I’d saved time and money and done it sooner. It has helped me more than all the self-help methods and counselors combined.
If you want help faster that actually changes your mindset and situation, this is your sign. I thought I knew all the information about narcissism from spending hours online, yet I was still unable to break myself fully away from the abuse from my family.
Adriana’s work was exactly what I needed to see more of the truth in my own situation, give myself permission to listen to my intuition, and start to actually free myself. It’s worth it.
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Sarah
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Healing the mind is healing the body. The mind-body connection is a powerful reality that many people never come to realize or accept.
Thankfully, Coach Adriana applies a straightforward and no-nonsense approach to help guide us in understanding how the mind affects the body and vice versa: healing the mind is healing the body, and healing the body is healing the mind.
At the center of it all is the essential work of processing our emotions and releasing our trauma.
These are all things I have learned about myself while working with Adriana and engaging with her material.
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David
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Today's the day

They’ve already taken enough from you. They don’t get the rest of your life too.

Start rebuilding the self-trust, emotional safety, and peace the narcissist in your life took from you, one small step at a time. Your personalized healing plan is only a couple minutes away.