Go Through Divorce Without Losing Yourself in It

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Go Through Divorce Without Losing Yourself in It

Name: Go Through Divorce Without Losing Yourself in It: Get personalized guidance for the conversations, decisions and difficult moments of divorce.
Author: Sharon Pope

Get personalized guidance for the conversations, decisions and difficult moments of divorce.

Know what to say when conversations get difficult
Make important decisions from clarity instead of fear or anger
Move forward without letting divorce consume your life

Created bySharon Pope

Relationship Expert, Master Life Coach and 7-time #1 best-selling author who has guided thousands through difficult relationship decisions.

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Your conversations are becoming more intentional, but difficult topics still escalate quickly. Before responding,...

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Peace Doesn't Mean Avoiding the Hard Parts

A peaceful divorce doesn't mean there won't be conflict.
It means you don't have to be consumed by it.

Nice work!

You crushed your goal of completing 3 peaceful communication activities this week.

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Stay grounded when emotions run high

Learn how to manage your emotions so anger, fear and hurt don't make your decisions for you.

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Have the conversations you need to have

Know what to say, how to say it and how to respond when conversations get difficult.

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Peace doesn't require your spouse's cooperation

You can't control how your spouse moves through divorce. You can control how you do.

YOU DON'T HAVE TO FIGURE THIS OUT ALONE

Know what to do when you don't know what to do.

Peaceful Divorce gives you personalized guidance for whatever you're facing right now, from difficult emotions and conversation to important decisions about what comes next. So instead of reacting from fear, anger and overwhelm, you can respond from a place of clarity.

Go Through Divorce Without Losing Yourself in It

Take the quiz to get your personalized plan

Go Through Divorce Without Losing Yourself in It

Get personalized guidance for the conversations, decisions and difficult moments of divorce.

Know what to say when conversations get difficult
Make important decisions from clarity instead of fear or anger
Move forward without letting divorce consume your life

Created bySharon Pope

Relationship Expert, Master Life Coach and 7-time #1 best-selling author who has guided thousands through difficult relationship decisions.

Your coach

Your conversations are becoming more intentional, but difficult topics still escalate quickly. Before responding,...

Today's Practice

8 min • Prepare in Advance

Continue Practice Now

Take the quiz to get your personalized plan

TAKE QUIZ & get my personalized plan

Peace Doesn't Mean Avoiding the Hard Parts

A peaceful divorce doesn't mean there won't be conflict.
It means you don't have to be consumed by it.

Nice work!

You crushed your goal of completing 3 peaceful communication activities this week.

self_improvement

Stay grounded when emotions run high

Learn how to manage your emotions so anger, fear and hurt don't make your decisions for you.

sms

Have the conversations you need to have

Know what to say, how to say it and how to respond when conversations get difficult.

healing

Peace doesn't require your spouse's cooperation

You can't control how your spouse moves through divorce. You can control how you do.

YOU DON'T HAVE TO FIGURE THIS OUT ALONE

Know what to do when you don't know what to do.

Morning Grounding

Communication Basics

Today's Practice

8 min • Prepare in Advance

Start Practice Now

Private Reflection

Including everything you need to succeed:

self_improvement

Know what to do next. A personal plan for where you are right now.

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Divorce can feel like a hundred decisions coming at you at once. Get clear on what needs your attention now, what can wait and what comes next.

psychology

Don't let your emotions make your decisions. Tools to help you steady yourself when emotions run high.

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Work through anger, fear, grief and uncertainty so you can respond thoughtfully instead of reacting in ways you may regret.

forum

Know what to say and how to say it. to prepare for difficult conversations and reduce unnecessary conflict

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Get help finding the words, setting boundaries and responding when conversations don't go the way you'd hoped.

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Understand the divorce process Learn what you need to know without becoming overwhelmed.

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Get straightforward guidance on the issues and decisions you're likely to encounter.

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Make decisions you'll feel good about later. Get clear before making choices that can impact your future.

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Separate fear, anger and outside opinions from what you actually want, need and value.

insights

Become someone you're proud of on the other side. Because how you move through divorce matters, too.

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Consistently make choices that reflect the person you want to be moving forward.

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Keep your kids out of the middle. Navigate divorce with your children's wellbeing in mind.

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Get guidance for co-parenting, difficult transitions and communicating with your children without asking them to carry what belongs to the adults.

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You don't have to do divorce the way everyone else does. Your divorce doesn't have to be driven by anger, fear or other people's expectations.

keyboard_arrow_down

Learn how to make intentional choices about how you want to communicate, even when your spouse chooses differently.

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Have somewhere private to tell yourself the truth. Work through what you're thinking and feeling without judgment or an agenda.

keyboard_arrow_down

Use private reflections to get clear about your fears, boundaries, needs and what matters most to you now.

Created by Sharon Pope

"I created this app to help families move through divorce with greater peace"

Sharon Pope

Relationship Expert, Master Life Coach and 7-time #1 best-selling author who has guided thousands through difficult relationship decisions.

I've spent more than a decade sitting with people in some of the hardest moments of their lives.

I've helped thousands of people wrestle with whether to stay or go, navigate betrayal and broken trust, have conversations they've been avoiding for years, and ultimately decide what comes next.

And here's something I've learned:
How you move through the ending matters.

Divorce can bring out the worst in people. Fear takes over. Anger starts making decisions. Every text becomes a battle. Friends and family have opinions. Attorneys can tell you what you're legally entitled to, but that doesn't necessarily tell you what choice is right for you.

You can't control how your spouse behaves through this process. You can't guarantee there won't be conflict. And you won't handle every moment perfectly.
But you get to decide who you want to be as you move through it.

That's why I created Peaceful Divorce.

I wanted you to have somewhere to turn in the moments when you don't know what to say, what to do next, or whether you're thinking clearly. Somewhere you can slow everything down, separate fear from truth, and make decisions you'll still feel good about when this chapter of your life is behind you.

You don't need to have a perfect divorce. You just need to become better equipped to handle an imperfect one.

A different way to move through divorce...Because the goal isn't simply to get through your divorce. It's to like who you are when you get to the other side.

Separate what you can control from what you can't

Make decisions from clarity instead of fear or anger

Keep your children out of the middle

Stop letting everyone else's opinions drown out your own

Know when to engage and when to step away

Say what needs to be said without making things worse

Set boundaries without using them as weapons

Make choices your future self will be proud of

personalized to you

Not generic AI. Guidance grounded in Sharon's approach.

Peaceful Divorce was built around the same principles and tools Sharon has developed through more than 10,000 hours helping people navigate difficult relationship decisions. AI makes that guidance personal to you and available when you need it.

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Peaceful Co-Parenting Conversation Practice

Practice • 12 min

Prepare for a difficult co-parenting conversation with personalized prompts, calming techniques, and boundary-setting rehearsal designed around your situation and communication goals.

What to do

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Settle Your Nervous System

2 min

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Clarify Your Shared Goal

3 min

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Rehearse a Calm Request

6 min

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Plan Your Next Step

1 min

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get started

Divorce isn't simple. Getting started can be.

It only takes a few minutes to get started

Onboarding Quiz

What would help you most right now?

Communicate calmly with my former partner

Support my children through the transition

Make thoughtful decisions about next steps

Process my emotions and rebuild stability

Tell us where you are

Answer a few questions about where you are, what you're facing and what you need most right now.

Your Plan

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Week 1

Creating Calm Foundations

Understand Your Divorce Stress

Practice Emotional Grounding

Set Communication Boundaries

Clarify Immediate Priorities

Week 2Upcoming

Navigating Difficult Conversations

Get your personalized plan

Get a clear plan built around your priorities, circumstances and what will help you most right now.

Today, September 11

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Morning Grounding

Activity • 3 min

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Communication Basics

Lesson • 5 min

forum

Calm Conflict Planning

Practice • 8 min

edit_note

Private Reflection

Journal • 5 min

Get guidance for what you're facing

Work through short lessons, practices and tools designed to help you handle the conversations, emotions and decisions in front of you.

Your Progress

Mindfulness/Meditation

52.3 minutes

as of Sep 6

JuneSeptember

Sleeping Wrist Temperature

55.2 °C

as of Sep 6

JuneSeptember

See how far you've come

Recognize your progress, revisit what you've learned and see how differently you're handling the moments that once felt overwhelming.

It only takes 2 minutes to get started

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You don't have to take my word for it...

For more than a decade, I've helped thousands of people find clarity, trust themselves and move forward through some of the hardest moments in their relationships. Here's what a few of them have shared...

With your help I have learned to let go, forgive and above all, love myself. I am so proud of the new me...Could not have done it without you so a massive THANK YOU from me

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Silvie

VERIFIED CUSTOMER

I could never thank you enough or as eloquently as I would like to for all your guidance, teaching and support. You taught me life skills that I reference weekly it not daily. I could not have survived and thrived through the situation that I found myself in without you.

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Vee

VERIFIED CUSTOMER

@Sharon Pope Thank you. You have been a big part of why I am willing to go through this. Your program allowed me to see the potential for change and a better future.

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VERIFIED CUSTOMER

I'll be 40 next year . I want to thank you for what I have been learning so far; I don't think there are other resources quite like this. I finally have hope that I can reach a mature decision that's right for my life.

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Brett

VERIFIED CUSTOMER

Thanks for your help and support! I don't know what i'd do or where l'd be without this

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Anna

VERIFIED CUSTOMER

I love the supportive, non-judgmental space where we can be vulnerable and express very personal aspects of our lives and relationships. I feel like I get the hard truth in a gentle, supportive delivery method. The questions to help us dig deeper always guides me to my own truth.

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Hope

VERIFIED CUSTOMER

Thank you for being an incredible resource. This work is life-changing. My therapist and close friends and family that I have confided in are commenting on how "right" I am doing this compared to anyone else they know. That's all due to this program. That brings me a little light in this hard time that feels so dark. So, thank you.

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VERIFIED CUSTOMER

It's hard to unwind a 50 year marriage, but I feel so free. I still love him & I always will, but It's time to unwind this. I am 66 & he is 71. It was a great love affair, until it wasn't. We agreed to unwind this as easy as possible, so we can still remain in a friendship, instead of a marriage relationship. We both love our kids & grandkids, and we both still love one another, just in a different kind of way now.

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Judy

VERIFIED CUSTOMER

We talked to our 3 boys who are 24, almost 21, and 19 last night to tell them that I've come to the decision to end our 24 year marriage. So much work that l've done was in preparation for last night. As difficult as it was, it went well because I was prepared and was able to lead my husband and all of us through it. There was so much sadness and many tears for all of us. But there was also respect, love, compassion, and understanding shown.

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VERIFIED CUSTOMER

Even though life is changing, I am starting to walk through the fire of divorce - but instead of feeling like I am losing something (my marriage and family as I've known it) I'm actually coming home to my heart and soul feeling fully awake and alive. I know that I'm heading in the right direction, thanks to Sharon, your program, and finally awakening/listening to the alignment between my heart and mind. So grateful.

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Trish

VERIFIED CUSTOMER

I am moving forward with my separation because that's what I can control and it is the right thing for me. Taking a little time to just sit in this before moving forward has helped me get clarity and courage. It's like each hard thing I tackle and do isn't as devastating or difficult as I imagined it. So I just need to keep going and doing the hard things.

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Becca

VERIFIED CUSTOMER

I needed to feel empowered and find the tools to be able to leave my marriage with confidence and with the knowing that I was doing the best thing for me and my child. Through Sharon's wise teachings, I found the power to do so and am in such a better place now! My daughter and I now our own place and her father lives only a mile away. He and I have a wonderful co-parenting relationship and I'm so grateful for you and the gift you are giving to so many women.

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Shylah

VERIFIED CUSTOMER

FAQ

Still wondering if Peaceful Divorce is right for you?

Who is Peaceful Divorce for?

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What if my spouse isn't interested in a peaceful divorce?

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What will Peaceful Divorce actually help me with?

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Is Peaceful Divorce personalized ro my situation?

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Can I use Peaceful Divorce if I'm not sure I want to divorce yet?

expand_more

Does Peaceful Divorce provide legal or financial advice?

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What makes this different than using ChatGPT or another AI tool?

expand_more

What if my divorce involves abuse or I don't feel safe?

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start where you are

You can't control every part of your divorce. But you can decide how you move through it.

You don't need to have all the answers today. Start where you are, and Peaceful Divorce will help you figure out what comes next.

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Today, we’ll focus on calming your body, naming the shared priority, and practicing one clear request. These steps help you communicate firmly without escalating tension, especially when emotions or old patterns appear.

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I only have five minutes today, and I’m feeling too overwhelmed to rehearse the whole conversation. Can you adjust my activities for today?

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Absolutely! I’ll reduce today’s practice to a brief grounding exercise and one focused communication prompt, so you can make progress without pushing past your emotional capacity.

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You don't need to have a perfect divorce. You need to be equipped for an imperfect one.

self_improvement

Know what to do next. A personal plan for where you are right now.

keyboard_arrow_down

Divorce can feel like a hundred decisions coming at you at once. Get clear on what needs your attention now, what can wait and what comes next.

psychology

Don't let your emotions make your decisions. Tools to help you steady yourself when emotions run high.

keyboard_arrow_down

Work through anger, fear, grief and uncertainty so you can respond thoughtfully instead of reacting in ways you may regret.

forum

Know what to say and how to say it. to prepare for difficult conversations and reduce unnecessary conflict

keyboard_arrow_down

Get help finding the words, setting boundaries and responding when conversations don't go the way you'd hoped.

family_restroom

Understand the divorce process Learn what you need to know without becoming overwhelmed.

keyboard_arrow_down

Get straightforward guidance on the issues and decisions you're likely to encounter.

account_balance

Make decisions you'll feel good about later. Get clear before making choices that can impact your future.

keyboard_arrow_down

Separate fear, anger and outside opinions from what you actually want, need and value.

insights

Become someone you're proud of on the other side. Because how you move through divorce matters, too.

keyboard_arrow_down

Consistently make choices that reflect the person you want to be moving forward.

edit_note

Keep your kids out of the middle. Navigate divorce with your children's wellbeing in mind.

keyboard_arrow_down

Get guidance for co-parenting, difficult transitions and communicating with your children without asking them to carry what belongs to the adults.

menu_book

You don't have to do divorce the way everyone else does. Your divorce doesn't have to be driven by anger, fear or other people's expectations.

keyboard_arrow_down

Learn how to make intentional choices about how you want to communicate, even when your spouse chooses differently.

fact_check

Have somewhere private to tell yourself the truth. Work through what you're thinking and feeling without judgment or an agenda.

keyboard_arrow_down

Use private reflections to get clear about your fears, boundaries, needs and what matters most to you now.

Created by Sharon Pope

"I created this app to help families move through divorce with greater peace"

Sharon Pope

Relationship Expert, Master Life Coach and 7-time #1 best-selling author who has guided thousands through difficult relationship decisions.

A different way to move through divorce...Because the goal isn't simply to get through your divorce. It's to like who you are when you get to the other side.

Separate what you can control from what you can't

Make decisions from clarity instead of fear or anger

Keep your children out of the middle

Stop letting everyone else's opinions drown out your own

Know when to engage and when to step away

Say what needs to be said without making things worse

Set boundaries without using them as weapons

Make choices your future self will be proud of

personalized to you

Not generic AI. Guidance grounded in Sharon's approach.

spa

Peaceful Co-Parenting Conversation Practice

Practice • 12 min

Prepare for a difficult co-parenting conversation with personalized prompts, calming techniques, and boundary-setting rehearsal designed around your situation and communication goals.

What to do

self_improvement

Settle Your Nervous System

2 min

chevron_right

flag

Clarify Your Shared Goal

3 min

chevron_right

record_voice_over

Rehearse a Calm Request

6 min

chevron_right

check_circle

Plan Your Next Step

1 min

chevron_right

get started

Divorce isn't simple. Getting started can be.

It only takes a few minutes to get started

Onboarding Quiz

What would help you most right now?

Communicate calmly with my former partner

Support my children through the transition

Make thoughtful decisions about next steps

Process my emotions and rebuild stability

Tell us where you are

Answer a few questions about where you are, what you're facing and what you need most right now.

Your Plan

edit

Week 1

Creating Calm Foundations

Understand Your Divorce Stress

Practice Emotional Grounding

Set Communication Boundaries

Clarify Immediate Priorities

Week 2Upcoming

Navigating Difficult Conversations

Get your personalized plan

Get a clear plan built around your priorities, circumstances and what will help you most right now.

Today, September 11

self_improvement

Morning Grounding

Activity • 3 min

school

Communication Basics

Lesson • 5 min

forum

Calm Conflict Planning

Practice • 8 min

edit_note

Private Reflection

Journal • 5 min

Get guidance for what you're facing

Work through short lessons, practices and tools designed to help you handle the conversations, emotions and decisions in front of you.

Your Progress

Mindfulness/Meditation

52.3 minutes

as of Sep 6

JuneSeptember

Sleeping Wrist Temperature

55.2 °C

as of Sep 6

JuneSeptember

See how far you've come

Recognize your progress, revisit what you've learned and see how differently you're handling the moments that once felt overwhelming.

It only takes 2 minutes to get started

starstarstarstarstar

You don't have to take my word for it...

With your help I have learned to let go, forgive and above all, love myself. I am so proud of the new me...Could not have done it without you so a massive THANK YOU from me

starstarstarstarstar

Silvie

VERIFIED CUSTOMER

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Vee

VERIFIED CUSTOMER

@Sharon Pope Thank you. You have been a big part of why I am willing to go through this. Your program allowed me to see the potential for change and a better future.

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Brett

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Thanks for your help and support! I don't know what i'd do or where l'd be without this

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Anna

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Hope

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Shylah

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FAQ

Still wondering if Peaceful Divorce is right for you?

Who is Peaceful Divorce for?

expand_more

What if my spouse isn't interested in a peaceful divorce?

expand_more

What will Peaceful Divorce actually help me with?

expand_more

Is Peaceful Divorce personalized ro my situation?

expand_more

Can I use Peaceful Divorce if I'm not sure I want to divorce yet?

expand_more

Does Peaceful Divorce provide legal or financial advice?

expand_more

What makes this different than using ChatGPT or another AI tool?

expand_more

What if my divorce involves abuse or I don't feel safe?

expand_more

start where you are

You can't control every part of your divorce. But you can decide how you move through it.

You don't need to have all the answers today. Start where you are, and Peaceful Divorce will help you figure out what comes next.

Go Through Divorce Without Losing Yourself in It

Your coach

Today's Practice

Peace Doesn't Mean Avoiding the Hard Parts

Nice work!

Stay grounded when emotions run high

Have the conversations you need to have

Peace doesn't require your spouse's cooperation

Know what to do when you don't know what to do.

Go Through Divorce Without Losing Yourself in It

Your coach

Today's Practice

Peace Doesn't Mean Avoiding the Hard Parts

Nice work!

Stay grounded when emotions run high

Have the conversations you need to have

Peace doesn't require your spouse's cooperation

Know what to do when you don't know what to do.

Morning Grounding

Communication Basics

Today's Practice

Private Reflection

Including everything you need to succeed:

Know what to do next. A personal plan for where you are right now.

Don't let your emotions make your decisions. Tools to help you steady yourself when emotions run high.

Know what to say and how to say it. to prepare for difficult conversations and reduce unnecessary conflict

Understand the divorce process Learn what you need to know without becoming overwhelmed.

Make decisions you'll feel good about later. Get clear before making choices that can impact your future.

Become someone you're proud of on the other side. Because how you move through divorce matters, too.

Keep your kids out of the middle. Navigate divorce with your children's wellbeing in mind.

You don't have to do divorce the way everyone else does. Your divorce doesn't have to be driven by anger, fear or other people's expectations.

Have somewhere private to tell yourself the truth. Work through what you're thinking and feeling without judgment or an agenda.

"I created this app to help families move through divorce with greater peace"

Sharon Pope

A different way to move through divorce...Because the goal isn't simply to get through your divorce. It's to like who you are when you get to the other side.

Not generic AI. Guidance grounded in Sharon's approach.

Peaceful Co-Parenting Conversation Practice

Guidance that's specific to what you're facing

Get help before you hit send

Help when the hard moment is happening

It remembers where you've been, so you can keep moving forward

Divorce isn't simple. Getting started can be.

Onboarding Quiz

What would help you most right now?

Tell us where you are

Your Plan

Creating Calm Foundations

Navigating Difficult Conversations

Get your personalized plan

Today, September 11

Morning Grounding

Communication Basics

Calm Conflict Planning

Private Reflection

Get guidance for what you're facing

Your Progress

Mindfulness/Meditation

Sleeping Wrist Temperature

See how far you've come

You don't have to take my word for it...

Still wondering if Peaceful Divorce is right for you?

You can't control every part of your divorce. But you can decide how you move through it.

Good afternoon!

Good afternoon!

Your Plan

Your Progress

You don't need to have a perfect divorce. You need to be equipped for an imperfect one.

Know what to do next. A personal plan for where you are right now.

Don't let your emotions make your decisions. Tools to help you steady yourself when emotions run high.

Know what to say and how to say it. to prepare for difficult conversations and reduce unnecessary conflict

Understand the divorce process Learn what you need to know without becoming overwhelmed.

Make decisions you'll feel good about later. Get clear before making choices that can impact your future.

Become someone you're proud of on the other side. Because how you move through divorce matters, too.

Keep your kids out of the middle. Navigate divorce with your children's wellbeing in mind.

You don't have to do divorce the way everyone else does. Your divorce doesn't have to be driven by anger, fear or other people's expectations.

Have somewhere private to tell yourself the truth. Work through what you're thinking and feeling without judgment or an agenda.

"I created this app to help families move through divorce with greater peace"

Sharon Pope

A different way to move through divorce...Because the goal isn't simply to get through your divorce. It's to like who you are when you get to the other side.

Not generic AI. Guidance grounded in Sharon's approach.