We’re Julie & Yue from Dateable, and our journey into the world of dating advice started as two active daters navigating the ups and downs of modern relationships. Like so many of you, we faced confusion, frustration, and self-doubt in our own dating lives. But through years of real-world experience, deep research, and countless conversations with daters and experts, we discovered what truly works—and what doesn’t—when it comes to finding meaningful connections.
Our passion for understanding dating led us to co-host the Dateable podcast, now with over 500 episodes and recognized by The New York Times, The Huffington Post, and Oprah Daily as a top resource for modern relationships. We also authored 'How to Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love,' distilling our best insights into a practical, hopeful guide.
Julie brings a background in human-centered design and qualitative research, while Yue draws from years of experience as a dating coach. Together, we’ve helped thousands of people transform their dating lives through our programs, courses, and supportive communities—including ourselves! We know firsthand how daunting dating can feel, but we also know it’s possible to approach it with confidence, clarity, and purpose.
We created the Confidence & Connection Coach app to give you the personalized tools, mindset shifts, and support we wish we’d had. Our hope is that you’ll not only find the right partner, but also feel more empowered, hopeful, and authentic in your dating journey.
