My early training was as a marriage therapist. I started questioning what I was being taught when I kept seeing couple after couple try… and fail.. to make any progress. I started digging into the research. And I was both surprised and concerned with what I saw.
When my training as a therapist showed me how marital therapy (and the techniques often shared there) was ineffective, I went on a search. I studied, tested, and verified approaches that do work.
More than that, I saw how couples had hit the “Pause Button” on their marriage — then they lost their way back to their marriage! But they still wanted to have that closeness and that love. They just didn’t know how.
That experience changed everything for me. I realized that so many couples were quietly struggling, feeling stuck and disconnected, just like we had. I became determined to share what I learned, so I spent the next three decades coaching couples, writing books, and developing resources to help others restore and transform their marriages.
Un-Pause is the culmination of my life's work. It's built on real-world experience, proven methods, and a deep belief that love can be renewed — even after years of distance or hurt. Every tool and lesson in this app comes from what actually works, not just theory.
My hope is that Un-Pause gives you the clarity, confidence, and support you need to reconnect with your partner and build a marriage filled with love, trust, and joy. If I could do it, I know you can too.
