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Why Your Relationship Isn’t Working and What to Do About It

The #1 Relationship Coaching App For Women and Men in Struggling Relationships
The #1 Relationship Coaching App For Women and Men in Struggling Relationships
  • Understand what's keeping your relationship stuck and disconnected
  • See your role in the pattern without blaming yourself
  • Know what's actually possible for your relationship 
Sharon Pope
Created bySharon Pope
Master Relationship Coach, 7-time #1 international best-selling author, and host of the top 1% podcast The Loving Truth
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When Nothing Seems to Work, Start Here

You’ve probably already tried to talk it through, be more patient, or fix what feels off. But when a relationship reaches this point, those efforts often don’t create real change. This app helps you understand what’s actually driving the disconnection, so you can stop guessing, stop overthinking, and start seeing clearly what’s possible from here.

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Understand what's really going on beneath the surface

Stop focusing on the arguments and distance, and start seeing the patterns that are driving them.

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Change how you show-up, even if your partner doesn't

Learn how to shift the dynamic by changing your responses, not waiting for theirs.

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Get clear on what's actually possible for your relationship

Move out of confusion and into clarity about whether this relationship can truly work.

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Guidance You Can Actually Use, Step by Step.

This app walks you step by step through what’s actually happening in your relationship and how to shift it. Each week, you’ll work through focused lessons, guided exercises, and real-life challenges designed to help you see the patterns you’ve been missing, change how you show up, and create movement where things have felt stuck.You won’t just learn what to do differently. You’ll understand why what you’ve been doing hasn’t worked, and what actually does.

Why Your Relationship Isn’t Working and What to Do About ItWhy Your Relationship Isn’t Working and What to Do About It
Take the quiz to get your personalized plan

Why Your Relationship Isn’t Working and What to Do About It

The #1 Relationship Coaching App For Women and Men in Struggling Relationships
The #1 Relationship Coaching App For Women and Men in Struggling Relationships
  • Understand what's keeping your relationship stuck and disconnected
  • See your role in the pattern without blaming yourself
  • Know what's actually possible for your relationship 
Sharon Pope
Created bySharon Pope
Master Relationship Coach, 7-time #1 international best-selling author, and host of the top 1% podcast The Loving Truth
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Today's Teaching

5 min • Difficult Conversations

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Achieve your goals

When Nothing Seems to Work, Start Here

You’ve probably already tried to talk it through, be more patient, or fix what feels off. But when a relationship reaches this point, those efforts often don’t create real change. This app helps you understand what’s actually driving the disconnection, so you can stop guessing, stop overthinking, and start seeing clearly what’s possible from here.

Feature image

Nice job!

You crushed your goal of completing 4 weekly  structured conversations this month.

psychology

Understand what's really going on beneath the surface

Stop focusing on the arguments and distance, and start seeing the patterns that are driving them.

favorite

Change how you show-up, even if your partner doesn't

Learn how to shift the dynamic by changing your responses, not waiting for theirs.

lightbulb

Get clear on what's actually possible for your relationship

Move out of confusion and into clarity about whether this relationship can truly work.

The only app you need

Guidance You Can Actually Use, Step by Step.

This app walks you step by step through what’s actually happening in your relationship and how to shift it. Each week, you’ll work through focused lessons, guided exercises, and real-life challenges designed to help you see the patterns you’ve been missing, change how you show up, and create movement where things have felt stuck.You won’t just learn what to do differently. You’ll understand why what you’ve been doing hasn’t worked, and what actually does.

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Morning Reflection

Relationship Check-In

Today's Teaching

5 min • Difficult Conversations

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Evening Gratitude

Including everything you need to succeed:

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See what's actually happening in your relationship

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Move beyond surface issues and start understanding the patterns driving the disconnection.

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Learn what's been missing, not just what to do

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Get clear, grounded guidance that helps you understand why what you've tried hasn't worked.

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Change how you communicate in real moments 

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Stop reacting the way you always have, and start responding in ways that actually change what happens next.

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Notice the shifts that actually matter

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Track how you're showing-up differently, the impact that has and the progress you're making.

psychology

Expert audio and video lessons from a master relationship coach

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Learn how to apply new tools inside the relationship to see if it can evolve to a new place.

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Real-time feedback and personalized recommendations

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Receive instant support that reflects your situation, not generic advice.

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Practice showing up differently, not just thinking differently 

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Apply what you're learning in real interactions so change actually sticks.

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24/7 coach support for guidance when you're in it, not after the fact

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Ask questions and get grounded guidance in the moments that matter most.

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See your relationship and yourself more clearly 

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Shift out of blame, confusion, and overthinking into understanding and direction.

Created by Sharon Pope

"I Built This for the Stage of a Relationship Most People Don't Know How to Navigate."

Sharon Pope

Sharon Pope

Master Relationship Coach, 7-time #1 international best-selling author, and host of the top 1% podcast The Loving Truth

For more than a decade, I’ve helped women and men navigate relationships that feel stuck, disconnected, or on the brink of ending.

This work is personal. After my first marriage ended, I went looking for answers about what actually creates connection and what quietly breaks it. What I found is this:

Most people aren’t lacking love.
They’re lacking clarity.

Clarity about what’s really happening.
Clarity about how they’re contributing to it.
Clarity about what’s actually possible from here.

I’ve worked with thousands of clients, written bestselling books, and host The Loving Truth podcast, where I talk openly about the realities of struggling relationships. But when a relationship gets to this point, none of that matters if you’re still guessing.

Trying harder doesn’t work.
Waiting for your partner to change doesn’t work.
Surface-level advice doesn’t work.

You need to see clearly.

This app gives you the same guidance I use with my private clients to help you understand the patterns you’re in, change how you show up, and get honest about what’s possible.

Not every relationship should last forever. And far too many relationships end far too soon because they’ve never been equipped to be successful.

But by the end of this, you’ll know you’ve shown up in a way you can respect, and you’ll have the clarity to move forward, together or apart, without second-guessing yourself.

What You'll Start to See and Do Differently

Understand what's actually driving the struggle, not just what's happening on the surface
See the patterns that keep pulling you back into the same problems
Stop communicating in ways that create defensiveness and distance
Learn what to do when trust has been damaged or broken
Change how you show up, even if your partner isn't doing this work alongside you
Recognize what you need and know how to express it clearly
Stay grounded in difficult conversations instead of losing yourself in them
Take ownership of your emotional experience without blaming yourself or your partner
See more clearly what's possible for this relationship (...and what's not)
Make a clear decision about what comes next
AI-POWERED COACHING

Every single day in the app is 100% personalized to you.

Built with powerful AI and informed by Sharon's teachings, this app is unlike anything you've ever used before. Everything is structured, guided and designed to meet you exactly where you are.

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Rebuilding Trust

Personalized Session • 14 min

This session guides you through proven steps to rebuild trust after a breach or ongoing doubts. Each exercise is tailored to your relationship’s unique history, communication style, and current emotional needs.

What to do
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Reflect on the Breach
3 min
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Share Vulnerably
4 min
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Active Listening Practice
4 min
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Recommitment Ritual
3 min
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How it works

You Don't Need All the Answers. Just a Place to Start.

It only takes a few minutes

Onboarding Quiz

What is your biggest relationship challenge right now?

We can't communicate without arguing
I feel disconnected or unappreciated
Trust has been broken between us
We're considering ending the relationship
1

Share what's actually going on in your relationship

Answer a few focused questions so the app can understand your situation and tailor the experience to what you’re really dealing with.

Your Plan

Week 1

Rebuilding Foundations

Identifying Core Issues
Daily Reflection Practice
Active Listening Skills
First Honest Conversation
Week 2Upcoming

Deepening Connection

2

Get a plan based on your specific situation

You’ll receive a clear, step-by-step path focused on helping you understand what’s happening and how to start shifting it.

Today, June 22

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Morning Reflection

Journal • 4 min

Relationship Check-In

Quiz • 3 min

Guided Communication

Activity • 8 min

Evening Gratitude

Reflection • 2 min

3

Practice showing up differently in real moments

Through daily lessons and reflections, you’ll begin to notice your patterns and change how you respond in real interactions.

Your Progress

Breakthrough Conversations

12 total

+3 in the last week

MarchJune

Days of Consistent Practice

18 days

+5 in the last week

MarchJune
4

Start to see what's actually changing

As you apply what you’re learning, you’ll begin to notice shifts in how you think, respond, and experience the relationship, giving you a clearer sense of what’s possible from here.

It only takes 2 minutes to get started

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Thank you. This program has really pushed me to action. I was unhappy and frustrated for so long. I started with having the difficult conversations, starting to draw some boundaries and then finally having to move out. I'm actually discovering that I've had way more power than I thought. I still have a ton to learn but I'm excited to continue my growth.
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Hope
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There is so much good info and I'm gaining so many tools for my relationship toolbox. My connection with my husband has never been better. I'm sharing vulnerabilities that are uncomfortable and he is receiving it.
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You have given me a gift that is giving me a new life. I just turned 50, and I just KNOW there are great things in store for me, and I'll be equipped to maximize that goodness. I just can't express my gratitude at the level that you deserve. I so quickly connected to your teachings, your style, and your tools. I hope you truly know what you are doing for people's lives.
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Thank you. There's truly no program like this. I would've given up and missed out on either the confidence that I made the right decision or the chance to make something truly beautiful.
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Kristi
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I'm not the same woman, I'm new and improved. Early in the program Sharon taught me to face the fear that paralyzed me, that kept me from having the hard conversations. What was I really afraid of anyway? I started having the hard conversations, asking the questions, leading with curiosity. I listened, I watched, I engaged and I learned. Then I began to blossom, to gain acceptance of myself and of my husband. I have all the knowledge, the tools and the confidence to move forward in my life, in my marriage and in every relationship.
I was hesitant to spend the money and join the program but I did, I invested in myself and it paid off.
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Lisa
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
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It's hard to unwind a 50-year marriage, but I feel so free. I still love him & I always will, but I told him that It's time to unwind this. I am 66 & he is 71. It was a great love affair, until it wasn't. I am still processing this. We agreed to unwind this as easy as possible, so we can still remain in a friendship relationship, instead of a marriage relationship. We both love our kids & grandkids, and we both still love one another, just in a different kind of way now. Finally some relief. 50 years over, but family still intact.
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Judy
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Thank you, Sharon. This knowledge has provided the confidence that I was really missing.
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Joel
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This has been invaluable to me. I've learned a lot about myself, good and bad. I've put into practice all the skills and I can say that our marriage has improved 100% (my husband's comment actually)! I know there will still be bumps down the road, but I am ready to create the 2.0 version of our marriage.
J
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Julia
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This is the best program like this that I have come across. Thank you!!
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Charles
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It's unique, and beautiful, and supportive. Sharon is so real and personable. She feels like your best friend who's super smart!
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Pam
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I'm feeling stronger and stronger each day listening to your teachings. Even my friends have noticed a change in me! It's the boiling frog analogy, you don't really notice yourself slowly losing confidence or strength...but I'm getting that back. Thank you. This tool is so amazing. With 10 years of counseling behind me I really have not felt as strong as I do after a few weeks of listening to your bad ass, no bullshit approach to all of this.
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Tonya
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My marriage had been on life support for decades and when I separated I really wanted to save it. I knew to do that I needed to take a good look at myself and my part in its demise. But I needed help. I had been following Sharon's podcasts for years and decided this program was exactly what I needed to steer me through. I finally was able to make a decision that was right for me which was to lovingly release my husband and myself from each other. Sharon's program is chock full of information, practical tips and of course her abundance of wisdom and experience. I learned so much about myself and about relationships over the past year. I have changed and grown enormously. Now I am in a really good place, happier than I've been in decades.
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Barbara
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If nothing has worked, start here.

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I'm feeling overwhelmed and only have about 5 minutes today. Can you give me a shorter activity?
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Absolutely! I'll condense today's session so you can focus on a quick reflection and one key communication exercise. Even small steps help rebuild trust and keep your progress moving forward.
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What this will help you do:

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See what's actually happening in your relationship

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Move beyond surface issues and start understanding the patterns driving the disconnection.

live_help

Learn what's been missing, not just what to do

keyboard_arrow_down

Get clear, grounded guidance that helps you understand why what you've tried hasn't worked.

chat

Change how you communicate in real moments 

keyboard_arrow_down

Stop reacting the way you always have, and start responding in ways that actually change what happens next.

error

Notice the shifts that actually matter

keyboard_arrow_down

Track how you're showing-up differently, the impact that has and the progress you're making.

psychology

Expert audio and video lessons from a master relationship coach

keyboard_arrow_down

Learn how to apply new tools inside the relationship to see if it can evolve to a new place.

insights

Real-time feedback and personalized recommendations

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Receive instant support that reflects your situation, not generic advice.

school

Practice showing up differently, not just thinking differently 

keyboard_arrow_down

Apply what you're learning in real interactions so change actually sticks.

question_answer

24/7 coach support for guidance when you're in it, not after the fact

keyboard_arrow_down

Ask questions and get grounded guidance in the moments that matter most.

lightbulb

See your relationship and yourself more clearly 

keyboard_arrow_down

Shift out of blame, confusion, and overthinking into understanding and direction.

Created by Sharon Pope

"I Built This for the Stage of a Relationship Most People Don't Know How to Navigate."

Sharon Pope

Sharon Pope

Master Relationship Coach, 7-time #1 international best-selling author, and host of the top 1% podcast The Loving Truth

For more than a decade, I’ve helped women and men navigate relationships that feel stuck, disconnected, or on the brink of ending.

This work is personal. After my first marriage ended, I went looking for answers about what actually creates connection and what quietly breaks it. What I found is this:

Most people aren’t lacking love.
They’re lacking clarity.

Clarity about what’s really happening.
Clarity about how they’re contributing to it.
Clarity about what’s actually possible from here.

I’ve worked with thousands of clients, written bestselling books, and host The Loving Truth podcast, where I talk openly about the realities of struggling relationships. But when a relationship gets to this point, none of that matters if you’re still guessing.

Trying harder doesn’t work.
Waiting for your partner to change doesn’t work.
Surface-level advice doesn’t work.

You need to see clearly.

This app gives you the same guidance I use with my private clients to help you understand the patterns you’re in, change how you show up, and get honest about what’s possible.

Not every relationship should last forever. And far too many relationships end far too soon because they’ve never been equipped to be successful.

But by the end of this, you’ll know you’ve shown up in a way you can respect, and you’ll have the clarity to move forward, together or apart, without second-guessing yourself.

What You'll Start to See and Do Differently

Understand what's actually driving the struggle, not just what's happening on the surface
See the patterns that keep pulling you back into the same problems
Stop communicating in ways that create defensiveness and distance
Learn what to do when trust has been damaged or broken
Change how you show up, even if your partner isn't doing this work alongside you
Recognize what you need and know how to express it clearly
Stay grounded in difficult conversations instead of losing yourself in them
Take ownership of your emotional experience without blaming yourself or your partner
See more clearly what's possible for this relationship (...and what's not)
Make a clear decision about what comes next
AI-POWERED COACHING

Every single day in the app is 100% personalized to you.

Built with powerful AI and informed by Sharon's teachings, this app is unlike anything you've ever used before. Everything is structured, guided and designed to meet you exactly where you are.

favorite

Rebuilding Trust

Personalized Session • 14 min

This session guides you through proven steps to rebuild trust after a breach or ongoing doubts. Each exercise is tailored to your relationship’s unique history, communication style, and current emotional needs.

What to do
psychology
Reflect on the Breach
3 min
chevron_right
record_voice_over
Share Vulnerably
4 min
chevron_right
hearing
Active Listening Practice
4 min
chevron_right
handshake
Recommitment Ritual
3 min
chevron_right
How it works

You Don't Need All the Answers. Just a Place to Start.

It only takes a few minutes

Onboarding Quiz

What is your biggest relationship challenge right now?

We can't communicate without arguing
I feel disconnected or unappreciated
Trust has been broken between us
We're considering ending the relationship
1

Share what's actually going on in your relationship

Answer a few focused questions so the app can understand your situation and tailor the experience to what you’re really dealing with.

Your Plan

Week 1

Rebuilding Foundations

Identifying Core Issues
Daily Reflection Practice
Active Listening Skills
First Honest Conversation
Week 2Upcoming

Deepening Connection

2

Get a plan based on your specific situation

You’ll receive a clear, step-by-step path focused on helping you understand what’s happening and how to start shifting it.

Today, June 22

6
V

Morning Reflection

Journal • 4 min

Relationship Check-In

Quiz • 3 min

Guided Communication

Activity • 8 min

Evening Gratitude

Reflection • 2 min

3

Practice showing up differently in real moments

Through daily lessons and reflections, you’ll begin to notice your patterns and change how you respond in real interactions.

Your Progress

Breakthrough Conversations

12 total

+3 in the last week

MarchJune

Days of Consistent Practice

18 days

+5 in the last week

MarchJune
4

Start to see what's actually changing

As you apply what you’re learning, you’ll begin to notice shifts in how you think, respond, and experience the relationship, giving you a clearer sense of what’s possible from here.

It only takes 2 minutes to get started

starstarstarstarstar

See how Sharon Pope has changed lives around the world

Join millions of people achieving their goals on Studio

Quote
Thank you. This program has really pushed me to action. I was unhappy and frustrated for so long. I started with having the difficult conversations, starting to draw some boundaries and then finally having to move out. I'm actually discovering that I've had way more power than I thought. I still have a ton to learn but I'm excited to continue my growth.
H
starstarstarstarstar
Hope
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
Quote
There is so much good info and I'm gaining so many tools for my relationship toolbox. My connection with my husband has never been better. I'm sharing vulnerabilities that are uncomfortable and he is receiving it.
L
starstarstarstarstar
Liza
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
Quote
You have given me a gift that is giving me a new life. I just turned 50, and I just KNOW there are great things in store for me, and I'll be equipped to maximize that goodness. I just can't express my gratitude at the level that you deserve. I so quickly connected to your teachings, your style, and your tools. I hope you truly know what you are doing for people's lives.
B
starstarstarstarstar
Becky
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
Quote
Thank you. There's truly no program like this. I would've given up and missed out on either the confidence that I made the right decision or the chance to make something truly beautiful.
K
starstarstarstarstar
Kristi
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
Quote
I'm not the same woman, I'm new and improved. Early in the program Sharon taught me to face the fear that paralyzed me, that kept me from having the hard conversations. What was I really afraid of anyway? I started having the hard conversations, asking the questions, leading with curiosity. I listened, I watched, I engaged and I learned. Then I began to blossom, to gain acceptance of myself and of my husband. I have all the knowledge, the tools and the confidence to move forward in my life, in my marriage and in every relationship.
I was hesitant to spend the money and join the program but I did, I invested in myself and it paid off.
L
starstarstarstarstar
Lisa
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
Quote
It's hard to unwind a 50-year marriage, but I feel so free. I still love him & I always will, but I told him that It's time to unwind this. I am 66 & he is 71. It was a great love affair, until it wasn't. I am still processing this. We agreed to unwind this as easy as possible, so we can still remain in a friendship relationship, instead of a marriage relationship. We both love our kids & grandkids, and we both still love one another, just in a different kind of way now. Finally some relief. 50 years over, but family still intact.
J
starstarstarstarstar
Judy
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
Quote
Thank you, Sharon. This knowledge has provided the confidence that I was really missing.
J
starstarstarstarstar
Joel
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
Quote
This has been invaluable to me. I've learned a lot about myself, good and bad. I've put into practice all the skills and I can say that our marriage has improved 100% (my husband's comment actually)! I know there will still be bumps down the road, but I am ready to create the 2.0 version of our marriage.
J
starstarstarstarstar
Julia
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
Quote
This is the best program like this that I have come across. Thank you!!
C
starstarstarstarstar
Charles
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
Quote
It's unique, and beautiful, and supportive. Sharon is so real and personable. She feels like your best friend who's super smart!
P
starstarstarstarstar
Pam
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
Quote
I'm feeling stronger and stronger each day listening to your teachings. Even my friends have noticed a change in me! It's the boiling frog analogy, you don't really notice yourself slowly losing confidence or strength...but I'm getting that back. Thank you. This tool is so amazing. With 10 years of counseling behind me I really have not felt as strong as I do after a few weeks of listening to your bad ass, no bullshit approach to all of this.
T
starstarstarstarstar
Tonya
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
Quote
My marriage had been on life support for decades and when I separated I really wanted to save it. I knew to do that I needed to take a good look at myself and my part in its demise. But I needed help. I had been following Sharon's podcasts for years and decided this program was exactly what I needed to steer me through. I finally was able to make a decision that was right for me which was to lovingly release my husband and myself from each other. Sharon's program is chock full of information, practical tips and of course her abundance of wisdom and experience. I learned so much about myself and about relationships over the past year. I have changed and grown enormously. Now I am in a really good place, happier than I've been in decades.
B
starstarstarstarstar
Barbara
VERIFIED CUSTOMER
FAQ

Your questions, answered

Who is this app for?
expand_more
What will I learn in this app?
expand_more
How much time do I need to dedicate to this app?
expand_more
Is this app suitable for beginners?
expand_more
How personalized is the experience?
expand_more
What kind of support is available?
expand_more
START HERE

If nothing has worked, start here.

You’ve probably already tried to talk it through, fix it, or be more patient. This is where you stop guessing and start understanding what’s actually going on.